Efficiency is the name of the game whether at home or at work; no matter how hard you work your output has to match a given criteria.效率是游戏的名称是否在家里或在工作中，不管你多么努力工作，你的输出，匹配给定的标准。 A criteria given to you?给你的准则？ Yes, unfortunately the acceptability of the level of your output and the quality of it are externally assessed by a cohort of people affectionately known as (aka) your family, friends, colleagues and bosses.是的，不幸的是，接受了你的产出水平和它的外部质量评估由深情地（又名）你的家人，朋友，同事和老板认识的人队列。
To make matters worse you are quite ready to accept this situation all in the name of an easy life.更糟的是你准备好接受一个安逸的名字这种情况的。 So you accept your situation, to work harder and harder each day to satisfy the requirements of someone else.所以，你接受你的情况，工作越来越难，每天来满足别人的要求。 How does that sound to you? How do you feel about these people?如何对你的声音？您如何看待这些人的感觉？ Your masters!你的主人！ Is it something you want to continue with?这是否是你要继续？
I'm not for one minute suggesting you take up the case and cause a rift within your family unit or circle of friends; however it's worth thinking about beginning to live your life on your terms rather than a life that serves someone else.我不是一分钟建议您采取了案件，导致在您的家庭或朋友圈裂缝的，但它的价值约开始在你的生活你的生活条件，而不是生活，服务别人的想法。 Just think about what you could achieve using the multitude of skills you posses in your toolbox; all waiting to be unleashed and generate you a life of success and achievements.试想想，你能够实现使用多种技能您在工具箱具有的，所有等待被释放，产生你的成功和成就的生活。 Success and achievements that are of value to you!成功和成就，是对你的价值！ So where do you start?那么，从哪里开始呢？
An earlier post asks the question, “ How much effort are you putting in “.先前的帖子问这个问题：“ 多少努力 ， 你将在 ”。 You might want to您可能想要 read this before you carry on.阅读此之前进行。
If you're ready to change your situation and make changes to your life that will benefit you, please read on.如果您准备改变你的情况，并为您的生活变化，这将有益于你，请继续阅读。 Ensuring all your hard work is paying off and helping you to achieve great things and continue your personal growth is your responsibility.确保所有的努力得到了回报，并帮助你实现伟大的事情，并继续您的个人成长是你的责任。 Your personal development training is crucial to ensuring you continue to learn and develop into your life and achieve success.你的个人发展培训 ，对于确保您继续学习和发展成为你的生活和取得成功。 This will help to release you from the burden of working hard to satisfy other people.这将有助于释放，艰苦奋斗，以满足其他人的负担你。 The following eight steps are a great starting point towards making the necessary changes:以下8个步骤是一个伟大的开始，对必要的变更点：
1. 1。 Persistence 持久性
Approaching your work with in half hearted manner will be of no benefit at all; the only purpose it serves is to provide your 'assessors' with the opportunity to take over your control panel and begin running your life.走近你的工作与半意的态度将是没有任何好处，唯一的目的，其服务是提供你的'评审有机会接管你的控制面板并开始投放您的生活'。 Be more persistent, don't settle for anything less than you deserve until you've achieved your outcome.更持久，不接受任何低于你应得的，直到您达到您的结果。 Don't settle for second best!不要满足于第二个最好的！ If necessary enlist the help of a life coach who will help you with your goal setting .如有必要争取一个生命的教练谁将帮助您的目标设置你的帮助。
2. 2。 Dedication 奉献
Have confidence in your cause and believe in yourself and the skills you possess; if you require additional skills go out and get them.在您的事业的信心，相信自己，你拥有的技能;如果您需要更多的技能出去，并让他们。 Be supportive to your cause and show some dedication.是支持你的事业，表现出一定的奉献精神。 Refrain from allowing others to talk you out of working towards what you want; they're your goals and they'll be your achievements.不要让别人谈论你想要对你出去工作，他们是你的目标，他们就会成为你的成就。
3. 3。 Use all your skills 使用所有的技能
Review the skills you have and be honest with yourself you have an abundance of them.回顾你的技能，并诚实地面对你有他们丰富。 Identify any additional skills you require and go out and get them, with bags of enthusiasm.确定任何您需要更多的技能，走出去，让他们与热情的塑料袋。 Above all else make sure you use the full extent of the skills you have; be proud of what you have, tell everybody you know and meet what you can do.最重要的是要确保使用的技能，你有充分的程度;感到骄傲，为你们的，告诉大家，你知道，满足你可以做什么。 A word of warning, do learn to be diplomatic when telling others about your skills you don't want to have an adverse effect and drive people away from you!一个警告，要学会做你的外交才能，你不希望有不利影响，使人远离你的时候告诉别人！
4. 4。 Be a good learner 是一个很好的学习者
Always be willing to learn new things; don't rest on your laurels, it's not very healthy for your progress.总是愿意学习新事物，不要在你吃老本，这不是你的进步非常健康。 Don't forget the following quote is worth committing to memory for your future reference.不要忘记以下报价是值得作出承诺，为你的未来参考记忆。
“In times of change, learners inherit the Earth, while the learned find themselves beautifully equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists.” E. Hoffer “在变革的时代，学习继承地球，而学会发现自己美丽的装备处理的世界已不存在。”大肠杆菌霍弗
So many people complete a course of study and make a rather silly statement that they are finished with learning or they just don't both look for other opportunities to continue their learning.因此，许多人完成课程的学习，使一个很傻的声明，他们对学习或他们只是没有其他机会都将继续完成他们的学习研究。 Not recommended.不建议。 Make a commitment to be a lifelong learner; place your self development at the top of your agenda.作出承诺，是一个终身学习者，放在你的议程的首位您的自我发展。
5. 5。 Be a good listener 做一个好的倾听者
There are three levels of listening:有三个层次的听力：
Level 1 listening is internal. 1级听是内部。 You listen to the words but you spend the time trying to see how you can benefit from what is being said.你听的话，但你花时间去看看你可以受益于所说的话。 We hear the words of the other person, but the focus is on what it means to us.我们听到对方的话，而是集中精力做对我们的意义是。
Level 2 is a more focused listening style, where the attention is more focused on the other person.第二个层次是重点更突出听风格，那里的注意力更多集中在其他人。
Level 3 is a higher level listening where you are hearing more than just the words; you also notice the emotion of the language, the all important body language and the environment.级别3是一个更高层次听你在什么地方听到不仅仅是文字，你也注意到了语言的情感，所有重要的身体语言和环境。
Levels 1 and 2 are used in our everyday communications, whereas level 3 includes using all five of your senses to listen to the information and detect the mood, pace and energy. 1级和2是在我们的日常通信中使用，而第3级包括使用您所有的感官五，听取和检测信息的情绪，速度和能量。
Adopt level 3 listening skills and enhance your understanding and contribution to your communications.采用3级听力技巧，提高您的理解与贡献，您的通信。 Listening to what other people have to say doesn't mean you have to agree with them; however, showing them respect will go a long way to earning respect from them.听别人说也并不意味着你必须同意他们，但他们展示方面将大有帮助，以赢得他们的尊重。
6. 6。 Don't be afraid to monetise your skills 不要害怕你的技能货币化
If your back ground is deeply rooted in doing things for others out of the love of it, you may struggle to consider charging people for your services.如果你回地面深深为他人超出了它植根于爱的东西，你可能很难考虑收取为您服务的人。 However, it's time to reconsider your attitude; begin to show yourself more respect and benefit from delivering your service.但是，现在是时候重新考虑你的态度，开始显示自己的尊重和提供的服务的好处。 If you love to help people you'll be a much stronger position to help them if you're in stronger financially position.如果你爱的人来帮助你将是一个更有利的地位，以帮助他们，如果你在你更强的经济地位。
If you have skills that people want don't be afraid to charge them.如果你有技能的人想要不要害怕向他们收取。 Don't forget you've work hard to develop your skills and probably paid your hard earned cash for them!不要忘记你努力发展你的技能，也许你的支付他们辛苦赚来的现金！
7. 7。 Build yourself a mastermind team 建立自己一个策划团队
This is a must for all people wanting to be successful.这是所有想要的人必须是成功的。 If you track all the successful people you know you'll discover they all have a mastermind team that supports them.如果您跟踪所有你知道你会发现他们都有一个策划团队，支持他们的成功人士。 A mastermind team comprises successful people who continue to be success because they have a strategy to follow which includes a mastermind team.阿策划小组的成员包括谁继续成功的成功人士，因为他们遵循的战略策划者，其中包括一队。 Your mastermind team will contain both people you know personally and others you don't know.您的策划团队将包含两个人你知道你本人和其他人不知道。 The people you select will all be able to offer you support in a particular area when you need it.您选择的人都将能够为您提供在某一特定领域的支持，当您需要它。 They will all have an expertise in the selected area.他们都会有一个在选择方面的专门知识。 These people don't necessarily need to be aware they are in your team, however for obvious reasons you will need to know about them, what they have achieved and how they achieved it.这些人并不一定要知道他们在你的团队，但由于显而易见的原因，你需要了解他们，他们取得的成绩，他们如何才能实现这一点。
For the people you know personally this is fairly easy you can speak to them and let them you you'd like them to be in your mastermind team.对于你认识的人亲自这是相当容易的，您就可以给他们，让他们你想要他们在你的策划团队。 In the majority of cases they'll be delighted to accept.在他们将很高兴接受大多数情况下。
For the people you don't know it's a case of researching them and find out from the Masses of information that's available on them, their successes and how they achieved them.对于人你不知道这是他们的研究情况，看看从信息，对他们提供的群众时，他们的成功以及如何实现它们。 Keep a dossier on them which you can refer to from time to time.继续他们的档案，你可以参考不时来。
8. 8。 Respect yourself 尊重自己
This is the last but by no means the least important.这是最后但并非最不重要的。 Respect for yourself is a key element towards your success and achieving the goals you are working towards.为自己的尊重是对你的成功的关键因素，实现你的目标正在实现。 This includes learning to say no; at the times when you want to, not the times when it suits others.这包括学习说不;的时候，你想，不是时候，它很适合别人。 Also if you are monetising your skills; it means charging a rate to reflect the value of your skills.另外如果你是货币化的技能，它意味着收费率，以反映您的技能的价值。 It means being available when you want to be available, not to the demands of other people.这意味着可当你想提供，而不是其他人的要求。
Follow these eight great steps and make all your hard work and efforts pay for you.按照这8大步骤，并让所有的辛劳和努力，你付出代价。 It's a must for your personal development .这是一个必须为您的个人发展 。 If you are working with a life coach talk to them about including it within your goal setting .如果你正在使用的生活教练谈，包括给他们在你的目标设定 。
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